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The Ultimate Marriage of Eros, Love & Sexuality.

Wow. What a journey we’ve had. From violently disconnected sex all the way to blissful connection. How can we top that? Throughout this journey, the common thread has been, simply put, the process of becoming more and more conscious of what is happening to our sexual energy and owning it. Being authentic about it. Voicing it. And taking care of it. The more we go up the spectrum, the more we clear our inner blocks. The more we reach high vibrational relationships and sex. It’s a universal law. It just goes hand in hand.

So, here is the last Shade on the Fifty Shades of Connection spectrum. Reaching the big “O”, not so much as in Orgasm as we typically think of it, but as in becoming the “One”.

 

Fusing:

When eros, love, and sexuality finally fuse together, it brings you down the path of self-discovery. The love keeps on wanting to dig deeper into depth while the life forces that channel through you deeply work on you, unlodging what needs purification. The process you’ve entered is a very deep transformational process: it is the alchemy of your soul.

If either you or your partner gets stuck, shuts down, the relationship crumbles or stagnates. But if both of you are deeply committed to this path of self-discovery and growth, your connection and development just take leaps and bounds. Your connection expands beyond the physical, the emotional and the intellectual. You now deeply connect on a spiritual level as well.

 

A new level of learning:

When you’ve achieved a connection on all these levels, it produces a feeling of the ultimate connection: Union. Feeling such levels of transcendence with another person brings you to a place of wanting to form a new model of marriage. A marriage that requires new levels of inner commitment, mutuality, and consciousness. In her book Creating Union, Eva Pierrakos gives the road map for such a union:

“The new marriage is totally open and transparent. There are no secrets whatever. The soul-processes of the partners are totally shared. This openness and transparency has to be learned. It is a path within a path, as it were. Expose your difficulty in achieving this openness, rather than trying to deny or hide it. Part of the openness consists in revealing your fear of the strong spiritual current, of the forces released by the unification of your sexuality and your heart. When the fear is shared — even though you may be unable to shed it as yet — the obstructions will be eliminated relatively fast, and a kind of vibrant fulfillment will come from the sharing itself. (…) Being on a path of profound self-development and shedding light on the hidden parts of the self are prerequisites to fulfillment in an alive and vibrant relationship. When the vibrancy ebbs away, the causes need to be explored by both partners together. There may be any number of reasons for the stagnation, none of them necessarily bad or shameful. (…)

When all levels of the two personalities are open to each other, join, and finally fuse, the intensity and vibrancy of the sexual encounter will surpass anything you can at present imagine. The kind of fusion cannot come about easily. The fusion on all levels of the personality means the fusion of all energy bodies. This is rarely the case. You will come to know when the fusion exists only on the physical level, and when it happens on the emotional, mental, and spiritual levels. (…)

Bliss, ecstasy, pleasure supreme can never exist gratuitously, can never be cheaply snatched. They could not be born that way. They can be born only when the personality has reached sufficient purification, security, faith, self-knowledge, comprehension of the universe.”

 

High Voltage Sex:

In fact, it is important to know that if someone is not prepared for such voltage, people can actually flip out or meltdown if they experience such energy currents without the necessary preparation. It’s sort of like an overdose: the energy was too powerful for their system. It’s like trying to jump ahead without having the needed maturity, the right vessel to contain that level of power.

What is essential to remember is that, as Baljit Rayat had mentioned, “with sex all illusions fall” so you gotta be ready for it! This is why you need to grow into your full power as an individual to get to these levels of bliss.

 

The process of purification:

Those who reach states of enlightenment have achieved it through a long process of purification. Sometimes people chose to experience high levels of pain before shifting or shedding, before accepting to see the illusion they are in. Sometimes, it takes that since our attachment to things can be so great. Letting go of a delusion can feel like death.

Concurrently, blissful states of sex are made possible by a similar process. If you have found your way here, you are taking a shot of the fantastic elixir of enlightenment. You feel this blissful oneness.

Everything is One again: you, your partner, the universe, all become the generous “One”!

 

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To read all 50 Shades of Connection, click here.

 

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So, what’s going on? Well, some A-MAZING stuff has been going on. I’m right in the middle of my first Webinar series and Healing Intensive with a bunch of fantastic and courageous ladies in my series called The Art of Co-Creative Sex.

The truth is, tackling our issues takes a lot of courage. You have to be willing to “see” the truth. And sometimes, it just so happens that it’s the exact truths you’ve been avoiding your whole life. But does it ever feel good when you realize that shedding those illusions allows for a much MUCH more satisfying life.

The magic when you do.

When you do have the courage to get into those hidden places and release those stagnating energies, you make room for VITALITY. You make room for your sexual energy to start DANCING again! And we want it to be dancing. It impacts every single aspect of our life. Hell ya, we want it dancing!!!!

The participants have talked to me about crazy significant dreams, memories starting to surface and identifying the places that things have been locked away. They have mentioned connecting some important dots. A few tears. A few deep sighs of frustration. So we are getting the keys out and opening up the doors.

The truth is: this is a very powerful experience. And it’s not even finished yet.

If ever you missed this series, I’m launching another one in the Fall. Just give me a shout if you want to get on the list for the next round. 

Until then, if you are noticing things tugging at you from the inside, some suffocating stagnation overtaking you, I offer one-on-one programs were we can dive into your own Akashic Records and help you quantum leap your life ahead. Why linger any longer in different forms of “shite”— from subtle to not so subtle.

By investing in a  series of 5 sessions, our archeological dig of the soul gets that much deeper and profound. If you are ready for change, you will shed what no longer serves you and invite in the good and yummy life you can’t even come close to imagining right now!

Please note: Sometimes in the process, your environment has to adjust to the “new” you too! : ) Keep focussed on your expansion. “Be you and the world will adjust.” ; )

 

Looking forward to working with you,

Julie xxx

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Julie Archambault is a certified multi-dimensional healer in the Akashic Records. She is a master at creating a safe vessel for magical and deep healing to occur. The power she channels for your accelerated healing is profound and truly sacred.

Sex is Still Unconscious.

Wake it up. Bring some light to it. Enlighten it.

Join me on an intimate and powerful journey bringing the power of sex to light.

Learn the spiritual nature of sex and how it can be your divine teacher.

Go from stagnation to an embodied state and attract the kind of relationships you truly want.

3 part Webinar and Healing Intensive — The Art of Co-Creative Sex starts in 4 days!

Get your little ass in gear and join the other participants for an “enlightening” “cutting edge” journey. Just the way I like it!

Save your spot here: http://www.cocreativesex.com/.

Cheers! Julie

#cocreativesex #spiritualknowlege #enlightenedlife #thrive #consciouslife

Your Sexual Energy is Talking to You. Listen Up!

When I talk about Co-Creative Sex, some people may think I’m just saying “Have More Sex!”.

That’s not what I’m saying.

The point isn’t to go out and do mindless things that further harm you or others. It’s not about accumulating negative karma for yourself because you are out of alignment with your deepest truths. It’s not about ditching your integrity simply for the sake of finding a way out.

Rather, it’s an invitation to listen more deeply to what your sexual energy is already trying to tell you. Co-Creation is a process of calibration. It’s about aligning yourself with the power and vibrancy of your truest essence. And your sexual energy is your very own divine guide.

So stop. Take a deep breath. Now, listen.

What is she asking for? Is she hurting? Is she free? Is she mad because you’ve been neglecting her? Is she invisible because you’ve hidden her? Can she express herself freely? Does she speak her truth? Is she safe to receive? To give? Does she override herself to please? Is she needy? Is she worried that she’s not enough? Is she scared of losing something?

The point is to listen and really hear what she has to say.

This is the true path of liberation.

Once you find the kinks in the hose, the water flows powerfully and will sprinkle just the right amount of water on your flower patch — so that your flowers blossom and THRIVE.

This is exactly what we will be working on in my upcoming ONLINE class and healing intensive in the Akashic Records starting June 5th.

What we are aiming for is MORE aligned sex! That’s what brings the most satisfaction. So, come and learn how to get there!

Save your spot by clicking on the image here:

Much love,

Julie

PS. Super excited! Glowing Snake is Expanding! New tuned-in helpers have joined my team. We are building up the Co-Creative platform to reach a larger audience. Why? The World Needs Healing! Especially, sexual healing! You can get a little taster when you click to enroll in the program. Mucho Amor!!! xxx

What happens when you really get connected.

How exciting! We are getting to the top of the mountain. We’ve traveled across many shades of connection, and now we have the privilege of seeing the view stretching out before us. It also means that we are getting closer and closer to the mysteries of the heavens. This shade of connection is co-creative sex with an extra torque. A skillful and masterful TORQUE!

We have discarded the vagaries of “unconscious” sex and entered the skillful domain of striving for higher states through the portal of mindfulness, skill, and practice. Here below, you will be getting some pretty juicy pointers and tips, both for Him and for Her, that may make you reconsider how you practice sex altogether.

Sans titre.jpg“George, dear, can we *pause* a sec’, got an itch!”

This shade of connection involves enhancing all areas of your sexual experience through genuine connection to self and to your partner. There are most certainly various practices that aim at achieving this, but since I took a three-month course with Devi Ward, international Tibetan Tantrika and leading-edge sex educator, I feel best equipped to share the qualities that I perceived throughout my experience with her.

The secret of Tibetan Tantra lies in your capacity to tap into a greater life force through a meditative practice and learn to amplify it. Once you’ve mastered this, you then proceed to incorporate it into your sexual practice. But be forewarned, this practice involves lots of healing. It’s a pro-active way of healing your sexual/spiritual energy. Through practices of meditation and self-knowledge, you learn the art of working and co-creating with them. Here is how you set the stage. 

TIPS FOR HER:

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In this shade of connection, the woman no longer defers her sexual experience to her partner and alternatively becomes an active agent in ensuring her satisfaction. The first requirement is that she be sufficiently connected to herself to actually know what she is experiencing. Since most people are living lives that involve a high level of stress and speed, the “Ocean Breath” is taught as a way of leaving behind all stresses of the day and consciously tuning into herself and her body. The best place to do this exercise is in the bathtub as she gets the added soothing effect of her body pulsating with her breath in warm water.

She puts her hand on her heart and on her yoni, the Sanskrit word for vagina, while she inhales and exhales into deep breathing exercises. This exercise has a direct impact on the nervous system as it soothes and releases all stressors. It allows her to feel what is there and take stock of her current situation. It helps her to connect to her heart. This allows her to become aware of herself, her feelings and to let go of anything that might be blocking her experience of pleasure. In contrast with earlier shades of connection, we can safely say that this self-connection is millenniums away from the disconnect that occurs in rape or variants of disempowered money-mediated sex.

Screen Shot 2017-05-17 at 1.41.06 PM.pngThe next step in this technique is that the woman is taught about self-pleasure. This way she learns about her own anatomy, what she likes, where her pleasure centers are and she learns to finds them. She explores the various erogenous zones of her body, which include 12 centers of highly sensitive tissue that can trigger orgasms. She can find her G-spot, A-spot, P-spot, U-spot, amongst others, and how to stimulate them to bring her pleasure — using pressure, rubbing, intensity, speed. I will make a list down below of the various centers of joy to help map it out for you.

This knowledge is essential for her sense of empowerment. When she knows how her body works, she is better equipped to express this to her partner, who then has a better chance at giving her pleasure. Devi always stresses this point in her teachings: You can’t expect another person to know innately how to bring you pleasure. You have to learn to communicate it and guide the other person in the most empowering way. This very skillful communication increases the chances of reaching the states you are aiming for. 

TIPS FOR HIM:

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The man that has adopted the practices of Tibetan Tantra knows that his practice depends on connecting his penis to his heart. Exercises that involve breath, heart and massage help him do this. He also seeks as a premise to bring pleasure to his partner, whether it be a man or a woman. In the case of a female partner, he is also interested in knowing how her body works, what brings her pleasure by communicating and listening to her needs, in a safe and respectful space. He has discovered the art of the Yoni Massage! He also has figured out where her pleasure centers reside.

Furthermore, he knows his semen is a potent solution of his own life forces. Every time he ejaculates, he releases out into the world a portion of his life forces, which we all know has the amazing capacity to create new life if it falls on fertile ground. But, conversely, he also knows that frequent ejaculations deplete his life forces, which can retrograde him on the spectrum as he becomes increasingly depleted, instead of increasingly energized and vitalized.

To counter this, he has developed a practice of semen retention, which means learning to orgasm without ejaculating. He knows that this practice allows him to become multi-orgasmic, not a bad reward for all his efforts! This involves finding what the Chinese call the “million dollar point.” This way he doesn’t leak out his precious energy forces every time he experiences pleasure. It also means that he can sustain sexual activity and pleasure over a longer period of time.

By achieving this, he can offer a much more satisfying experience to his partner. If she is a woman, she needs on average more time to warm up to reach higher forms of pleasure. If he can last longer, it also allows her to fully achieve her full pleasure potential as she is, in fact, naturally multi-orgasmic. This means she can peak multiple times in short lapses of time without any need to regenerate. By lengthening intercourse time, she can peak many times! How fun for her! With the practice of semen retention, both partners can garner the benefits of multiple orgasms.

This translate to longer periods of mutual joy, which is, of course, deeply bonding. Semen retention also avoids the disappointment that comes with premature ejaculation, which involves potentially losing his sexual drive before the woman actually warms up. It goes pretty much without saying: the practice of mutual satisfaction deepens feelings of connection and union. Shall I remind you where we started on this spectrum? Eons and galaxies away from here. Just saying! 

THE PRACTICE:

Screen Shot 2017-05-17 at 1.41.31 PM.pngThe core of the Tibetan Tantra approach involves a very specific meditative practice that enhances one’s capacity to circulate energy throughout the body. This enriches what the Taoists call “chi”, the vital forces. Tibetan Tantra focuses on learning to circulate energy in 5 major energy centers of the body, the chakras.

The more one enriches the energy through meditative practice, the more one has access to a powerful energy flow during sex. It is not surprising that this heightens the power of sex. It is the difference between a depleted battery and a fully energized Energizer Bunny plugged into the Universe! The meditative practice heightens the energy currents by tapping into a larger pool of energy available to us. You then learn to circulate these currents throughout the body and in a circular way with your partner.

With all this preparation, the partners are well-equipped to achieve higher forms of connection. In the Tibetan Tantra approach, the two partners are encouraged to consciously connect to each other before engaging in sex. They are invited to embrace and put a hand on their partner’s heart. A series of breathing exercises allow the two partners to fully synchronize with each other. They deeply look into each other eyes.

In this form of sex, you have two people really consciously wanting to connect at different levels through touch, breath, gaze. They want to acknowledge the unique person in their arms and want to take the necessary time to consciously do this. They want to let them into their heart, feel their essence. When someone doesn’t want to make eye contact during sex, doesn’t that feel a little odd? And yet, it happens! It is as if they don’t want to connect heart to heart. Here, they choose to be fully receptive to all that brings them pleasure. Isn’t that exciting?! Who doesn’t want to deeply be acknowledged, be perceived and be cared for? These qualities certainly meet universal human needs.

THE HEALING PROPERTIES:

Screen Shot 2017-05-17 at 1.41.58 PM.pngAs people apply these practices and increase the energy of their chi, or energy flow, they have to also know, as mentioned earlier, that this energy is very powerful. This means the more powerful the current, the more healing it will wield. Conversely, it also means that the more you heal and dissolve your energy blocks, the more you have access to a heightened current streaming through your body. It clears the way to experiencing blissful states of pleasure.

This is when penis and vagina actually become powerful healing tools. The penis referred to as “lingam” in Sanskrit — now fully connected to the heart — becomes the all powerful “jade stick,” a truly amazing healing wand. The vagina, known as the yoni, becomes “the sacred space,” a powerful energy center instantly felt by those who enter.

These forces equally play out in non-heterosexual relationships, it’s just about the energy circulating through the bodies. As we cross the spectrum, we see that the “dick” shifts from being a weapon of domination and destruction to a healing magic wand. The “pussy” grows into a powerful tiger that will roar and purr soothing healing forces, assuring growth to all who enter her den. These powerful tools help liberate you from all your blocks and bring you closer to your fullest actualization.

As Baljit Rayat so wisely said: “With sex, all illusions fall.”

Are you ready to let your illusions dissolve into liquid silver?

JOIN ME FOR THE ART OF CO-CREATIVE SEX — THE ONLINE COURSE. JUNE 2017.

Here are 7 ENLIGHTENING THINGS this course will do for you:

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NUMBER 1. It will help you see the relationship between sexual, spiritual and creative energy and help you see where you are blocked.

NUMBER 2. It will allow you to see the direct link between your sexual energy and your personal/spiritual development and why you need to pay attention to sexual energy.  It will give you a glimpse of “behind the scenes” spiritual knowledge governing sexual energy and relationships. Very very useful to know.

NUMBER 3. It will shed light on why issues come up in relationships and help you release the toxic from them.

NUMBER 4. In the sacred space of the Akashic Records, you can get an extra booster to release your blocks from 5 of your lower chakras: root, sacral, solar plexus, heart, and throat. (Well, I couldn’t leave out the throat. Voice is so important!!!) Think of it as SPRING CLEANING!!!!

NUMBER 5. It will heal and calibrate your sexual energy.

NUMBER 6. It will empower you to own yourself fully and claim the life and relationships you deserve.

NUMBER 7. It will awaken your gifts.

If this resonates, don’t miss out. Everyone walking this planet would benefit from healing their sexual energy. I say this quite confidently. It’s the doorway to your actualization.
ONLINE COURSE: JUNE 2017. So get cracking! Sign up.
love Julie xxx

For more info, click on the image below. 

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“Open to me, so that I may open.
Provide me your inspiration
So that I might see mine.”

— Rumi

(SUNBURST OWL, Kenojuak Ashevak, Stonecut & Stencil, 2002 superimposed with Snakeskinned Tiger Woman, Julie Archambault, 2016)

FIFTY SHADES OF CONNECTION —THE BIG MARKERS ON THE SPECTRUM: 

1. Sexual assault: the antithesis of connection — Coal gray

2. Victimized  vs. empowered money-mediated sex— Paynes gray

3. Sex under the influence: deferring your power — Smog gray

4. Personal development meets porn-literate: the realities under the non-realities — Gunmetal gray

5. Eating the Shadow in Sex: Sexual Vampirism — Campfire smoke

6. Decolonizing sex: Free Yourself of Mental Slavery — Coal soot

7. Clear contracts:  from Genital rubbing to depth — Nimbus cloud gray

8. “Genital rubbing”— Stainless steel

9. Light and playful sex — Billowing cumulus

10. Hello Heart — Silver lining

11. The Groundwork for Co-creative Sex — mining silver

12. Showing up for Co-creative Sex — Pure Silver

13. Consciously cultivating connected-sex — Liquified silver

14. The ultimate marriage of eros, love, and sexuality — Blooming silver stardust

COMING SOON:

Zeeee ULTIMATE shade of Connection…. : )

Consciously Cultivating Connected-Sex: Juicy Tips and Skills that Will Get You to the Top

 

How exciting! We are getting to the top of the mountain. We’ve traveled across many shades of connection, and now we have the privilege of seeing the view stretching out before us. It also means that we are getting closer and closer to the mysteries of the heavens. This shade of connection is co-creative sex with an extra torque. A skillful and masterful TORQUE!

We have discarded the vagaries of “unconscious” sex and entered the skillful domain of striving for higher states through the portal of mindfulness, skill, and practice. Here below, you will be getting some pretty juicy pointers and tips, both for Him and for Her, that may make you reconsider how you practice sex altogether.

Sans titre.jpg“George, dear, can we *pause* a sec’, got an itch!”

This shade of connection involves enhancing all areas of your sexual experience through genuine connection to self and to your partner. There are most certainly various practices that aim at achieving this, but since I took a three-month course with Devi Ward, international Tibetan Tantrika and leading-edge sex educator, I feel best equipped to share the qualities that I perceived throughout my experience with her.

 

The secret of Tibetan Tantra lies in your capacity to tap into a greater life force through a meditative practice and learn to amplify it. Once you’ve mastered this, you then proceed to incorporate it into your sexual practice. But be forewarned, this practice involves lots of healing. It’s a pro-active way of healing your sexual/spiritual energy. Through practices of meditation and self-knowledge, you learn the art of working and co-creating with them. Here is how you set the stage. 

TIPS FOR HER:

pexels-photo-197465.jpg

In this shade of connection, the woman no longer defers her sexual experience to her partner and alternatively becomes an active agent in ensuring her satisfaction. The first requirement is that she be sufficiently connected to herself to actually know what she is experiencing. Since most people are living lives that involve a high level of stress and speed, the “Ocean Breath” is taught as a way of leaving behind all stresses of the day and consciously tuning into herself and her body. The best place to do this exercise is in the bathtub as she gets the added soothing effect of her body pulsating with her breath in warm water.

She puts her hand on her heart and on her yoni, the Sanskrit word for vagina, while she inhales and exhales into deep breathing exercises. This exercise has a direct impact on the nervous system as it soothes and releases all stressors. It allows her to feel what is there and take stock of her current situation. It helps her to connect to her heart. This allows her to become aware of herself, her feelings and to let go of anything that might be blocking her experience of pleasure. In contrast with earlier shades of connection, we can safely say that this self-connection is millenniums away from the disconnect that occurs in rape or variants of disempowered money-mediated sex.

Screen Shot 2017-05-17 at 1.41.06 PM.pngThe next step in this technique is that the woman is taught about self-pleasure. This way she learns about her own anatomy, what she likes, where her pleasure centers are and she learns to finds them. She explores the various erogenous zones of her body, which include 12 centers of highly sensitive tissue that can trigger orgasms. She can find her G-spot, A-spot, P-spot, U-spot, amongst others, and how to stimulate them to bring her pleasure — using pressure, rubbing, intensity, speed. I will make a list down below of the various centers of joy to help map it out for you.

This knowledge is essential for her sense of empowerment. When she knows how her body works, she is better equipped to express this to her partner, who then has a better chance at giving her pleasure. Devi always stresses this point in her teachings: You can’t expect another person to know innately how to bring you pleasure. You have to learn to communicate it and guide the other person in the most empowering way. This very skillful communication increases the chances of reaching the states you are aiming for. 

TIPS FOR HIM:

pexels-photo-60219.jpg

The man that has adopted the practices of Tibetan Tantra knows that his practice depends on connecting his penis to his heart. Exercises that involve breath, heart and massage help him do this. He also seeks as a premise to bring pleasure to his partner, whether it be a man or a woman. In the case of a female partner, he is also interested in knowing how her body works, what brings her pleasure by communicating and listening to her needs, in a safe and respectful space. He has discovered the art of the Yoni Massage! He also has figured out where her pleasure centers reside.

Furthermore, he knows his semen is a potent solution of his own life forces. Every time he ejaculates, he releases out into the world a portion of his life forces, which we all know has the amazing capacity to create new life if it falls on fertile ground. But, conversely, he also knows that frequent ejaculations deplete his life forces, which can retrograde him on the spectrum as he becomes increasingly depleted, instead of increasingly energized and vitalized.

To counter this, he has developed a practice of semen retention, which means learning to orgasm without ejaculating. He knows that this practice allows him to become multi-orgasmic, not a bad reward for all his efforts! This involves finding what the Chinese call the “million dollar point.” This way he doesn’t leak out his precious energy forces every time he experiences pleasure. It also means that he can sustain sexual activity and pleasure over a longer period of time.

By achieving this, he can offer a much more satisfying experience to his partner. If she is a woman, she needs on average more time to warm up to reach higher forms of pleasure. If he can last longer, it also allows her to fully achieve her full pleasure potential as she is, in fact, naturally multi-orgasmic. This means she can peak multiple times in short lapses of time without any need to regenerate. By lengthening intercourse time, she can peak many times! How fun for her! With the practice of semen retention, both partners can garner the benefits of multiple orgasms.

This translate to longer periods of mutual joy, which is, of course, deeply bonding. Semen retention also avoids the disappointment that comes with premature ejaculation, which involves potentially losing his sexual drive before the woman actually warms up. It goes pretty much without saying: the practice of mutual satisfaction deepens feelings of connection and union. Shall I remind you where we started on this spectrum? Eons and galaxies away from here. Just saying! 

THE PRACTICE:

Screen Shot 2017-05-17 at 1.41.31 PM.pngThe core of the Tibetan Tantra approach involves a very specific meditative practice that enhances one’s capacity to circulate energy throughout the body. This enriches what the Taoists call “chi”, the vital forces. Tibetan Tantra focuses on learning to circulate energy in 5 major energy centers of the body, the chakras.

The more one enriches the energy through meditative practice, the more one has access to a powerful energy flow during sex. It is not surprising that this heightens the power of sex. It is the difference between a depleted battery and a fully energized Energizer Bunny plugged into the Universe! The meditative practice heightens the energy currents by tapping into a larger pool of energy available to us. You then learn to circulate these currents throughout the body and in a circular way with your partner.

With all this preparation, the partners are well-equipped to achieve higher forms of connection. In the Tibetan Tantra approach, the two partners are encouraged to consciously connect to each other before engaging in sex. They are invited to embrace and put a hand on their partner’s heart. A series of breathing exercises allow the two partners to fully synchronize with each other. They deeply look into each other eyes.

In this form of sex, you have two people really consciously wanting to connect at different levels through touch, breath, gaze. They want to acknowledge the unique person in their arms and want to take the necessary time to consciously do this. They want to let them into their heart, feel their essence. When someone doesn’t want to make eye contact during sex, doesn’t that feel a little odd? And yet, it happens! It is as if they don’t want to connect heart to heart. Here, they choose to be fully receptive to all that brings them pleasure. Isn’t that exciting?! Who doesn’t want to deeply be acknowledged, be perceived and be cared for? These qualities certainly meet universal human needs.

THE HEALING PROPERTIES:

Screen Shot 2017-05-17 at 1.41.58 PM.pngAs people apply these practices and increase the energy of their chi, or energy flow, they have to also know, as mentioned earlier, that this energy is very powerful. This means the more powerful the current, the more healing it will wield. Conversely, it also means that the more you heal and dissolve your energy blocks, the more you have access to a heightened current streaming through your body. It clears the way to experiencing blissful states of pleasure.

This is when penis and vagina actually become powerful healing tools. The penis referred to as “lingam” in Sanskrit — now fully connected to the heart — becomes the all powerful “jade stick,” a truly amazing healing wand. The vagina, known as the yoni, becomes “the sacred space,” a powerful energy center instantly felt by those who enter.

These forces equally play out in non-heterosexual relationships, it’s just about the energy circulating through the bodies. As we cross the spectrum, we see that the “dick” shifts from being a weapon of domination and destruction to a healing magic wand. The “pussy” grows into a powerful tiger that will roar and purr soothing healing forces, assuring growth to all who enter her den. These powerful tools help liberate you from all your blocks and bring you closer to your fullest actualization.

As Baljit Rayat so wisely said: “With sex, all illusions fall.”

Are you ready to let your illusions dissolve into liquid silver?

JOIN ME FOR THE ART OF CO-CREATIVE SEX — THE ONLINE COURSE. JUNE 2017.

Here are 7 ENLIGHTENING THINGS this course will do for you:

The Art of.png

 

NUMBER 1. It will help you see the relationship between sexual, spiritual and creative energy and help you see where you are blocked.

NUMBER 2. It will allow you to see the direct link between your sexual energy and your personal/spiritual development and why you need to pay attention to sexual energy.  It will give you a glimpse of “behind the scenes” spiritual knowledge governing sexual energy and relationships. Very very useful to know.

NUMBER 3. It will shed light on why issues come up in relationships and help you release the toxic from them.

NUMBER 4. In the sacred space of the Akashic Records, you can get an extra booster to release your blocks from 5 of your lower chakras: root, sacral, solar plexus, heart, and throat. (Well, I couldn’t leave out the throat. Voice is so important!!!) Think of it as SPRING CLEANING!!!!

NUMBER 5. It will heal and calibrate your sexual energy.

NUMBER 6. It will empower you to own yourself fully and claim the life and relationships you deserve.

NUMBER 7. It will awaken your gifts.

If this resonates, don’t miss out. Everyone walking this planet would benefit from healing their sexual energy. I say this quite confidently. It’s the doorway to your actualization.
ONLINE COURSE: JUNE 2017. So get cracking! Sign up.
love Julie xxx

For more info, click on the image below. 

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“Open to me, so that I may open.
Provide me your inspiration
So that I might see mine.”

— Rumi

(SUNBURST OWL, Kenojuak Ashevak, Stonecut & Stencil, 2002 superimposed with Snakeskinned Tiger Woman, Julie Archambault, 2016)

FIFTY SHADES OF CONNECTION —THE BIG MARKERS ON THE SPECTRUM: 

1. Sexual assault: the antithesis of connection — Coal gray

2. Victimized  vs. empowered money-mediated sex— Paynes gray

3. Sex under the influence: deferring your power — Smog gray

4. Personal development meets porn-literate: the realities under the non-realities — Gunmetal gray

5. Eating the Shadow in Sex: Sexual Vampirism — Campfire smoke

6. Decolonizing sex: Free Yourself of Mental Slavery — Coal soot

7. Clear contracts:  from Genital rubbing to depth — Nimbus cloud gray

8. “Genital rubbing”— Stainless steel

9. Light and playful sex — Billowing cumulus

10. Hello Heart — Silver lining

11. The Groundwork for Co-creative Sex — mining silver

12. Showing up for Co-creative Sex — Pure Silver

13. Consciously cultivating connected-sex — Liquified silver

14. The ultimate marriage of eros, love, and sexuality — Blooming silver stardust

COMING SOON:

Zeeee ULTIMATE shade of Connection…. : )

An intimate look.

As you go about your daily business, something may be nagging you from the inside. It can be a little, meek voice or a big, loud voice screaming in your ears. It can be a voice that you have shut out completely, even gagged. It can also be a cunning voice that is tempting you to shove all that integrity of yours out the window.

But it speaks to you. Often.

I’d like to invite you into a more intimate space for a moment. Let’s listen to what it has to say.

Your sexual energy is ALWAYS talking to you. Whether you’ve blotted it out or not. And it is no surprise. Your sexual energy is your creative energy, which is also your spiritual energy. All this amazing sexual/spiritual/creative energy runs through your body.

It also bumps up against all your woundings and blocks! If sexual energy is a scary energy for you, this is the first hint that something is wounded or blocked.

If one pays careful attention, our sexual energy is our best teacher. When you heal your sexual energy, you heal your life. Literally.

If this area feels uncomfortable for you or fraught with knots, please join my online course and healing intensive: The Art of Co-Creative Sex starting, very pronto, in June.

I will be teaching some powerful spiritual principle that will help you understand what is actually going on in your life, in your intimate relationships, and your business.

Every class, I will be opening up the Akashic Records with the group to help you process some of your deep-seated blocks.

Just imagine what happens when you finally release the full power of your sexual/spiritual/creative energy?

You become a POWERHOUSE. Nothing less.

If you want to know more, you can ask me any questions, PM me, or go to my website at https://glowingsnake.com/courses/

The COURSE starts in JUNE. So put it on your calendar!!! : )

Love Julie xxx

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Is Eve Thriving?

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HOW MUCH SUPPORT DO YOU LET IN FROM THE UNIVERSE?

The best way to find out is by looking at your relationship to SEX and MONEY. They speak chapters about what is going on for you.

In this QUIZ, I focus on your sexual relationship. “Is your sexual relationship a supportive relationship?” This is a great way to see in a tangible way how much support you allow into your life. If you are single, just think of the last relationship you were in. This may turn out to be very revealing on why you aren’t in one now.

Regardless, get ready to see things as they are. That is the best place to be. Knowing.

Take the Quiz and figure out how much you let the Universe support YOU!

Click on the image below:

IS EVE

 

Much love,

Julie

 

SHOWING UP FOR CO-CREATIVE SEX

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This is the very powerful load down on showing up for Co-Creative Sex. Make sure you read it closely! There is a lot of juice here. : )

Last month, we talked about the GROUNDWORK FOR CO-CREATIVE SEX. That even the beautiful Gods and Goddess from Hollywood have to do it too to get what they want. Make sure you read that before reading the next installment which involves actually SHOWING UP FOR IT!

In co-creative sex, Baljit Rayat explains on “Sex is Medicine” with Devi Ward, not only are you co-creating with your partner but as in all artistic endeavors, you also co-create with the universe. Something bigger comes in to participate, supporting flow, magic and your ultimate unfolding.

When you fully become aware of your own power and truly own that you are the author of your life, you realize that so much depends on how consciously you show up. You are acutely aware that the INTENTIONS you bring to your relationships significantly affect their outcome. You suddenly realize that all that happens to you is actually your own creation.

When you enter sexual activity, perfectly conscious of what you are bringing into the relationship, your motivations, your desires, your fears, and anxieties, you also know that the quality of the sexual experience will directly be influenced.

When you ask the Universe to support you, to co-create with you, help you overcome your fears, clear all your blockages, you are stepping into the gateway of your self-power.

We achieve our fullest expression of self-power when we completely take responsibility for ourselves.

This conscious attitude and inquiry are how things can truly blossom in sexual activity. When you DEFER your power, make everyone else responsible for your life and problems, you fall into unconscious sex, and this is when problems start showing up.

Furthermore, Baljit explains that when you use sexual energy consciously, all illusions dissipate. You no longer believe in fairy tales and you stop leaking your precious energy.

You also free your energy from being stuck in the three lower chakras. When you get stuck there, your blocked energy will eventually result in healing crises, which is not the easiest route to take. When you act from a very empowered place, sex is extremely healing and catapults you to new levels of satisfaction and fulfillment, both sexually and in other important aspects of your life. When you are consciously co-creating with sex, you will, of course, need to deal with various things coming up, but it also means that you are getting closer and closer to your true self.

Co-creative sex automatically cultivates integrity, purpose, and self-realization. It just goes together.

When you understand the power of sex, you actually realize that it has a tremendous healing power. Empowerment becomes manifest in all levels of your life. When you defer your power, you retrograde into unconscious sex.

If you do things just to “please” without respecting yourself or expect the other person to “give” you that highly sought after orgasm, you automatically fall out of co-creative sex.

This happens whenever expectations are put on someone and they “have” to do something for you. Baljit explains that an orgasm actually comes from “how energetically clear you are with yourself. And when you learn to tap into this (co-creative energy), you are healing all your wounding at the same time. You are way more open, juicier, way more connected!” She explains that when you meet someone that is like-minded and “energetically” understands you, the magic just happens.

What I personally love in this statement is that it isn’t how much you are energetically aligned with another person, but how energetically aligned you are to yourself. This is a very powerful statement. Of course, when you are energetically aligned with yourself, chances are, you will be laying beside someone who is energetically aligned with you! But to attract the ladder, you, of course, need to start with yourself.

For this to happen, she explains, it is very important to understand the difference between “boundaries” and “barriers.” Emotional blocks and lack of consciousness create “barriers” to co-creative energy, whereas “boundaries” help you step into your power and seal up any energy leakages you may have.

Boundaries, which are made possible through healthy communication, are the secret access pass to co-creative sex.

It allows the energy to powerfully flow in a leak free container. Just think of it: when there is a leak in the plumbing, you don’t get a nice flow of water in the shower. Well, the same outcome occurs on the energetic level. Once you patch up all your leakages and tap into your co-creative power with a like-minded person, your sex life will wield a new level of intensity as well as unfathomable experiences of connection, real power, and deep satisfaction. Once the plumbing is fixed, the water flows powerfully and abundantly. Imagine what that would mean on the energetic level!

Your capacity to tap into co-creative sex is directly correlated to your personal development and your level of awareness. Once you’ve mastered this, you can say goodbye to disempowered sex. You have become an empowered manifester, creating realities that you want to experience in your leak-free-vessel of love. You are also reaping all the benefits of this accelerated healing power.

You have become a maestro at the art of processing the “stuff” that comes up, digesting it, then integrating it as personal wisdom. In this place, your life forces are optimal and supporting you in all areas of your life. You have become a powerhouse — or definitely heading in that direction.

Your sexual satisfaction is a perfect mirror of your own life. They become perfectly interchangeable. Needless to say, when two people enter sexual intercourse from this conscious perspective, sex can wield experiences far beyond what they can imagine.

Co-creative sex nourishes your energy fields as opposed to depleting them. In fact, your life and sex are injected with new levels of energy, propelling you to new heights!

You are in the process of “up-levelling” your energetic frequency. 

In co-creative sex, you are experiencing and expanding into deeply satisfying states of blissfully connected sex, heightened levels of consciousness and feelings of oneness. As you progress on this path, you are getting that much closer to your full potential as a human being, that much more connected to your true essence and capacity to truly realize yourself.

This is far from trivial stuff. In fact, we are touching on some very deep and profound realities, that probably can only fully make sense once you start tasting it for yourself. Maybe even simply allowing yourself to taste it. To get here, you totally earned it! You have become a total Manifester. You’re a total Boss!

To SUM IT UP, here is the Formula of Sex:

Catalyst + Revealer + Awareness = Infinite Growth 

But no worries. I am very well aware that this is a total PROCESS. Becoming a fully empowered co-creator takes commitment and resolve. If you are needing help with your blind spots, with those unconscious programs playing out in your head that stop you from fully being the creator you want to be, don’t hesitate. Help is VERY useful! It can catapult you five steps ahead, 100 steps ahead… and even more. Whatever leap you are ready to make, it can happen. Remember the universe is always there to create WITH you! The universe is ALWAYS ready to PLAY. Just give me a shout and we will get things happening for you.

HURRAY FOR TESTIMONIALS!!!
Full of pezzazz in her period dress from a Louis XIV TV-Series set in France, here is Josée Lachance:

“I had the chance to have a healing session with Julie and it was more revealing than I thought possible. It made me see myself and my relationships in a whole new light. Definitely worth it. J’ai eu la chance d’avoir une session Akashic avec Julie et j’ai été surprise par les choses qui sont ressortis. J’ai appris à voir mes relations sous un autre angle. Ça m’a aidé à comprendre d’où je venais et où je dois m’en aller pour évoluer. Merci Julie!!!” — Josée Lachance, Montreal, Film Industry.

SOMETIMES OUR BLINDNESS STOPS US FROM WAKING UP. 

I created a QUIZ to help you see the blind spots in your relationship. If you are single, it can help you see what might be holding you back. Regardless, you will definitely be able to connect-the-dots… if you are willing to look! : )

If you are COMMITTED to making things better:

TAKE THE QUIZ: Is your sexual relationship a supportive relationship?

Click on the image to start:

Love Julie xxx
P.S. Check out this beautiful video. This is a perfect example of “Co-Creative Sex” made visible with art! See ya soon!

FIFTY SHADES OF CONNECTION —THE BIG MARKERS ON THE SPECTRUM: 

1. Sexual assault: the antithesis of connection — Coal gray

2. Victimized  vs. empowered money-mediated sex— Paynes gray

3. Sex under the influence: deferring your power — Smog gray

4. Personal development meets porn-literate: the realities under the non-realities — Gunmetal gray

5. Eating the Shadow in Sex: Sexual Vampirism — Campfire smoke

6. Decolonizing sex: Free Yourself of Mental Slavery — Coal soot

7. Clear contracts:  from Genital rubbing to depth — Nimbus cloud gray

8. “Genital rubbing”— Stainless steel

9. Light and playful sex — Billowing cumulus

10. Hello Heart — Silver lining

11. The Groundwork for Co-creative Sex — mining silver

12. Showing up for Co-creative Sex — Pure Silver

13. Consciously cultivating connected-sex — Liquified silver

14. The ultimate marriage of eros, love, and sexuality — Blooming silver stardust

COMING SOON:
Consciously Cultivating Connected Sex (18th of May) 

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Julie Archambault is a certified multi-dimensional healer in the Akashic Records. She is a master at creating a safe vessel for magical and deep healing to occur. The power she channels for your accelerated healing is profound and truly sacred.

(Collage Art: Curious intruder, Kenojuak Ashevak, Etching & Aquatint, 2009 superimposed with Snakeskinned Tiger Woman, Julie Archambault, 2016)

10 SIGNS THAT RESISTANCE IS RULING YOUR LIFE.

“I’m restless. Things are calling me away. My hair is being pulled by the stars again.”   ~ Anaïs Nin

Surprise! I am resisting this. Yes, resistance is something that we all rub up against. I, for one, was resisting writing this to you! I’d been wanting to do it for the past two weeks! So why wasn’t I doing it? Good question!

We can be resisting things for so many reasons. It could be simply resisting something because we don’t want to feel vulnerable. It could be resisting speaking one’s truth for fear of loss. It could be resisting being v-i-s-i-b-l-e in the world because taking up space on the planet is scary, especially if in the past it hasn’t been safe to reveal our true selves.

It could be resisting being r-e-s-p-o-n-s-i-b-l-e for the state of our life because we live with the illusion that it’s easier to be an ostrich, head plunked underground. In the dark, nothing shows up, right!?

It could be fear of stepping up and taking on a leadership role or resisting hearing something about ourselves that we don’t want to hear. It could simply be the fear of not being GOOD ENOUGH.

When we operate out of an unconscious fear, we automatically fall into mechanisms of protection. We RESIST the truth. We RESIST hearing. We RESIST showing up. We RESIST moving forward.

But the TRUTH IS: “Resistance is FUTILE.” Why? Well, we can resist all we want, but the truth is the truth. Sooner or later we are going to have to deal with it. And the longer it takes us to see it, the longer we are going to feel OFF. The longer our lives feel under par. The longer we operate from a place of misalignment, the more we perpetuate what we don’t want. Sickness. Drama. Frustration. And then, well, we feel unhappy about it.

Discomfort is simply there to get us to wake up. And sometimes, we need to sit in discomfort for a long time before we actually get over ourselves and actually press the EJECT button on the resistance and embrace the power of FLOW. Flow comes from deeply aligning ourselves to our essence. This means, just to be really clear, not resisting it.

So how can you tell if you are resisting something? Here are 10 SIGNS that you are resisting your very own LIFE. This can help you take stock of the situation so that the misalignment doesn’t get out of control, and to give you a little nudge in the direction you actually do want to go in.

Resistance is essentially blocking out the truth and we have many unconscious mechanisms for doing this. Bear in mind as I go through the list that it may feel uncomfortable at times, but resistance is a universal experience. There is no judgment attached to it. We will all feel it at some point in our life. I am simply flagging it to make it that much more explicit and obvious. That way we can notice resistance when it shows up and not let it rule the day.

1. EXCUSES.
Do you have a lot of excuses up your sleeves? Do you find yourself always explaining to everyone why you didn’t, or couldn’t, or forgot? Cutting out excuses is a wonderful self-discipline. It allows you to really look at yourself and stop trying to justify yourself to others. This is the first step towards stepping up and taking full responsibility for your life.

2. NOT SHOWING UP ON TIME?

There are various ways we can express our resistance in a passive-aggressive way. One way is by making people wait for us. A time was set but then we want to change things at the last minute to accommodate our lack of organization. It comes down to how seriously we commit to something. How seriously we show up for ourselves. This is a case of actions-speak-louder-than-words. If this is something you do, it may be hard to admit to it, but that is the best thing you can do for yourself. Nothing like being honest with yourself to inspire more aligned actions in the future.

3. FEELING OVER-RESPONSIBLE FOR EVERYONE ELSE’S PROBLEMS? 
This is the BEST strategy to avoid your life. If you HAVE to take care of everyone else, if you are the ONLY person in the world that can take care of a situation or another person, you are making yourself into “SOURCE”. Meaning, you think you are GOD. You have this false belief that you are the only person on this planet that has the competence, availability or resources to fulfill a need. Well, anytime you say “I have to” or “No one else can”, you are buying into a false belief that is allowing you to avoid your own life. Harsh huh! Yes, it is. And so true too. Just think of the number of people that exist on this planet. Imagine the number of solutions that exist out there. The universe actually abhors a void. So, if you leave one, guess what, it gets filled up! Trust the universe with this one. Now, you have to figure out what you are actually trying to avoid! That is the real culprit.

4. DESPERATE FOR CRUTCHES?
Do you always have something hurting? Something to heal? Some sickness that prevents you from showing up? Do you often have to heal this before you can do that? Does it make you feel safe to hand over your well-being to some expert? Ailments always reveal something about what is going on in your life. If you are very attached to the narrative that you have to “heal this” before you can “do that”, or even better, you hire someone to heal it, but it never gets healed, well chances are you are resisting showing up for your very own self. If you are always busy “healing”, well you don’t have much time for anything else, right? Not “being well enough” can become an excuse for not going for it. Ask yourself if you are truly ready to step into your power and if you are really ready to goal! This is a good antidote as well against the “poor me” syndrome.

5. ARE YOU A DRAMA MAGNET?
Does drama always find a way into your life? If so, consider this: drama is a sneaky way to sabotage yourself. It unleashes chaos into the very things you care about, whether it be family, your business, your creative endeavors and your relationships. Drama is all consuming. So, why do you engage in it?

6. RESISTING PAYING AND INVESTING IN YOURSELF?
Money is an amazing revealer. It reveals a lot about the unconscious parts of our psyche. How we show up for money, how we use it, how we relate to it, tells us a lot about ourselves. Do you value yourself enough to invest in your well-being? Or are you always skimpy in this area? Do you often say “I don’t have the money”? Think again, money is only “energy” in material form. We always chose how to flow or not with money, whether to receive it or not. Your unconscious beliefs about money run the show. Sometimes we do need to invest in ourselves because we genuinely need help. When you can’t see your blind spots, help is required. Ask yourself, If you could take a major step forward in your life with some help, why do you avoid investing in it? For the sake of clarity, help is not a crutch if you are seriously ready to do the work. It becomes a crutch only when you use it to avoid something bigger. Tricky, huh! This requires discernment and honesty.

7. CASTRATING THE MESSENGER?

Sometimes we hire help but we are not willing to hear the music. Somehow, it shatters the script we had written for ourselves. I learned about this one because I found myself doing this very thing. The end result: I didn’t want to re-write the script. I didn’t want to be visible in a certain way! When we come to an appointment with a set agenda: we expect to hear only what we want to hear. When we are challenged on something we don’t want to deal with, we can be tempted to dismiss the messenger. But it is important to note, life is always co-creation. If you come to a session with openness and intention to heal, you will. If you come to dig in your heels into the ground, you will. Ask yourself, why don’t I want to see this? What am I resisting? Why do I choose “doubt” as my mode of operation? Co-creating your life means knowing that your intentions are very powerful. Set the intentions that the help you invest in will bring back unfathomable results for you and then show up for it. It is truly as simple as that.

8. PERFECTIONISM!
Leonard Cohen had it right. “Forget your perfect offering.” When you want everything to be perfect, you actually block the flow. You also stay stuck in non-action. Take a deep breath and release. And just allow yourself the joy of imperfection. People love imperfect people! The best-kept secret is that when you just start, the strength and support actually show up. It’s just one of those universal laws. Many times in my life I’ve created things out of thin air. I just had a vision, started working on it, got people involved, and surprise, it happened!

9. BLAMING OTHER PEOPLE?
Of course, the lamentable state of your life is because of what everyone else did or does to you, right? Look again. This is actually an abdication of personal responsibility as co-creator of your own life. And I raise my hand on this one! I’ve definitely done this. Blaming others overlooks the fact that we have agreed to this life “contract”, which may seem somewhat absurd, but after taking up the challenge it poses, you will notice how much it actually enlightens you. The real question is how long are you going to hold on to these hardships before you claim your birthright to joy? How long is it going to take you to heal yourself? How long will you stay in the narrative that you were “done wrong”? And yes, you may have been “done wrong” for real, but how long do you want to hold on to it as a justification for your unhappiness? How about committing to transmuting the crap, and getting on with the good stuff, faster!

10. NOT FULLY SHOWING UP?
Are you half in, half out? Do you come, but then your body language, your energy, and your enthusiasm lag behind? If you have trouble showing up for yourself, for an appointment that is all about you, you will notice that you do the same thing in other parts of your life too. Sometimes people don’t show up because they have this script running through their mind that nothing ever works anyways, so why fully commit? Of course, in thinking that way, you are setting yourself up for failure. If you have trouble committing in your life, this will have a definite impact. You will be creating a half in, half out kind of life. In other words, a half-ass kinda life!

Ok. There is the download. Now, I just need to CONGRATULATE myself because I had been seriously resisting writing this for a while now. I was distracting myself with all kinds of stuff. I never seemed to have the “energy” to do it. Ha! I finally let go of my resistance and bam! Here is my “perfect offering”! Hope it is useful to you.

Love Julie

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Julie Archambault is a certified multi-dimensional healer in the Akashic Records. She is a master at creating a safe vessel for magical and deep healing to occur. The power she channels for your accelerated healing is profound and truly sacred.

Bring more clarity to your life.

Ready to let go of all that resistance? Ready to see it right in the eyeballs? Ready to shift out of this energetic wasteland? Come for a session in the Akashic Records and we will pinpoint any blind spot that you have and let the flow of life in… again!

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The wild heart is where the magic happens. See you there!

The Groundwork for Co-creative Sex

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In the previous 50 Shades of Connection, I talked about creating clear containers for sex as we made our way from mutually agreed upon “genital rubbing” to the opening of the heart. As we cross the spectrum, we are amping up the connection and conscious practice in sex. The good news is that as the experience of sex deepens, the health benefits do too! Our bodies enjoy a stronger immune system, reduced blood pressure, improved bladder control, improved sleep, amongst other great stuff. When energy moves through the body, sexual activity catalyzes the life forces and gets them streaming through the whole body, equivalent to an electrical current. These intensified life forces actually have the power to heal people from all kinds of past traumas and emotional blocks. To fully understand this, one has to understand how the chakras work, which are the seven energy centers in our body starting in the lower spine and ending up at the crown of the head, including the root, solar plexus, heart, throat and crown chakras

In these chakras, memories, emotional blocks and traumas are stored. This is where the energetic signature of ancestral and cultural programming wedge themselves. They block the energy flow. If one person grew up with a lot of financial insecurity, they may have big blocks in their root chakra, where we store issues around security. If someone was bullied and mocked when they used their voice, they may have blocks in their throat chakra, resulting in a difficult time expressing themselves. As sex activates the flow of energy through these energy centers, they bump up against these blocks. As the force is quite powerful, the flow starts dislodging some of the wedges and re-awakens the wounds. People having sex may be completely oblivious to what is happening to them, but suddenly in their relationship, issues start showing up. Unconscious or inherited coping patterns start kicking in and start challenging the individuals involved.

No one is exempt from this process. Not even our modern Gods and Goddess living in Hollywood. One could assume that these very sexy individuals appear to have it all made: beauty, success, power, wealth and one would assume fantastic sex! Yet, when we find out that their marriages or unions erode and fall apart, we are all taken aback. We imagine that the handsome man will get the beautiful woman and the rest is history. What more could you ask for? Yet, drama after drama occurs as soon as they start dating and engage in sex with each other. We can look to the Brangelina trademark and break up. Or the Ben Affleck and Jenn Garner saga. Behind the picture-perfect couple are two individuals with all their baggage just like everyone else, who get slowly tripped up as they start getting those energy forces circulating between their bodies. Why did Ben sleep with the nanny? Well, the real question is what were Ben and Jenn avoiding to deal with before it happened?

As sexual energy powerfully circulates through the body and shakes everything up, default settings kick in if they are not addressed consciously. Some people rise to meet these issues by addressing them and processing whatever wound or programming shows up. While many others will just fall into default mode and exacerbate the programming or the wounding, thereby eventually disintegrating the relationship. To clarify, ancestral programming refers to emotional baggage/dynamics that were not dealt with in the previous generation and are handed down to you. Fun, right!? You’ve got the hot potato now! You have to deal with it: you can either exacerbate it or take care of it by shedding light on it. Many things get handed down, memories around sexual abuse, issues around racism and exclusion, tyrannical and control patterns, submissive behaviors, issues around money and security, self-esteem problems, sexist or entitled behaviors, cheating, fear to speak up, you name it… get passed down and tripped up!

Essentially, whatever issues and emotions have not been dealt with by the previous generations will slide down to you. Harbored within you are all these inherited issues needing to be lit up with consciousness. The magic of all this is that your energetic vibration will actually attract the exact person that needs to face these dynamics too but on the other side of the deal. This is energetic correspondence. We slide into the given role we’ve been dealt. And it doesn’t get freed up until one of the two sheds consciousness on it and shifts out of it. It can either allow the other person to shift too, but if they don’t want to deal with it, then you have your first crisis in the relationship. 

When no one wants to deal with it, the two individuals find themselves acting out the default modes inherited down their ancestral and family lines. In Baljit Rayat’s interview with Devi Ward on “co-creative sex”, she gives very common examples of these default modes. “Jill may turn to taking care of the kids and neglect the relationship, while John may turn to porn, playing video games or watching sports.” Or any other distraction that suits them: it could be your job, physical work-out or soap operas— anything that fills the void and allows you to a-void dealing with the root problem.

And there you have it, the relationship becomes stale and disconnected. Alternately, every breakthrough, every attempt of bringing clarity, transparency, and communication brings more intimacy, depth, and connection to the relationship. Conversely, it may simply shed light on the stalemate in your relationship. You either dig your own grave or dig deep into gold with unprecedented depth and satisfaction. It’s actually your choice.

As the intensity of feelings and dynamics emerge, you may want some support to process the issues coming up. This could be in the form of stalemates, unspoken truths and certainly lots of frustration. A session in the Akashic Records is a sacred vessel that helps you speed up the processing of all these blocks. It’s sort of like healing on probiotics! With this boost, you are setting up the stage for fantastic co-creative sex and relationships. Talk to you soon. 

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Julie Archambault is a certified multi-dimensional healer in the Akashic Records. She is a master at creating a safe vessel for magical and deep healing to occur. The power she channels for your accelerated healing is profound and truly sacred.

If you would like to stay in touch and receive some wisdom on Sex+Soul+Spirit in your inbox, by all means! I pride myself on inspired content that is of service to your utmost expression and becoming on this planet!

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COMING SOON: Showing up for Co-creative Sex  (20th of April) 

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THE BIG MARKERS ON THE SPECTRUM: 

1. Sexual assault: the antithesis of connection — Coal gray

2. Victimized  vs. empowered money-mediated sex— Paynes gray

3. Sex under the influence: deferring your power — Smog gray

4. Personal development meets porn-literate: the realities under the non-realities — Gunmetal gray

5. Eating the Shadow in Sex: Sexual Vampirism — Campfire smoke

6. Decolonizing sex: Free Yourself of Mental Slavery — Coal soot

7. Clear contracts:  from Genital rubbing to depth — Nimbus cloud gray

8. “Genital rubbing”— Stainless steel

9. Light and playful sex — Billowing cumulus

10. Hello Heart — Silver lining

11. The Groundwork for Co-creative Sex — mining silver

12. Showing up for Co-creative Sex — Pure Silver

13. Consciously cultivating connected-sex — Liquified silver

14. The ultimate marriage of eros, love, and sexuality — Blooming silver stardust

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