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Reflexions on this festive morn.

Today is the Christmas draw and I’m very excited to be picking a name out of the magic hat. (Well, it’s really a brown paper bag, but a MAGIC brown paper bag!) So… drum roll… the winner of the Xmas draw is Sarah! Hurray! You are in for a real treat. I’ll email you directly to set up an appointment.

The next draw for a free Akashic Record Healing is on the 1rst of January. You still can get your name in this magical brown paper bag if you haven’t yet, right here: If you have, stay tuned. The gods may favour you next!

Reflexions on this festive morn.                                 25th of December, 2016 

It’s the hidden parts of ourselves that make us unhappy. They start ruminating. Why don’t I get to be seen! They secretly pester us in the recesses of our being until we take notice of them. Signs of this hiding show up in various ways:

-Feelings of depression

-Constantly being sick

-Feeling invisible in the world — a pale ghost of ourselves drifts around— feelings of isolation

-Not speaking our truth because we are worried about losing someone or something.

-Feeling a lack of satisfaction and purpose in life

-Stagnating in life, in our professional lives, in our relationships and of course, in sex!

-Poor habits of self-care and self-love.

The discomfort tells us that we are not fully honouring our full spectrum, our full potential and that it’s time to WAKE up! Of course, it’s when we fully step into our full spectrum, into our full power, that we serve ourselves and the world the best. And the biggest thing that is stopping us is Fear. Fear puts on many masks and lurks in our shadows, making it hard to see at times.

This is why we have to stake it out, spot it and capture it! Look at it in the eye. Ah-ha, you were hiding there! You were the one causing me such strife! To up-level our frequency — which means achieving the highest vibration of ourselves or achieving the most magical version of ourselves —  involves a very simple and yet truly profound principle.

1- We need to SEE our shadow and the masks it wears.

2- We need to OWN our shadow.

3- Then, we need to EAT it, DIGEST it and, ultimately, LET it go.

This process frees us up and allows us to show up in the most empowered version of ourselves. Suddenly, all this amazing power fills our being. We feel empowered to create the life we want. We show up in the world differently, and the world responds immediately and, quite frankly, beautifully!


How the Akashic Records can support and accelerate this principle.

The Akashic Records are a very powerful tool that helps us speed up the process by:

A.) Helping us spot that dodging shadow! It’s important to understand that our shadow is a master chameleon! It knows how to hide exactly in our blind spots. Finding that shadow is the very process of “waking up”.

B.) Once we’ve found it, we can process it in the AR in a very effective and speedy way. Imagine adding tons of probiotics to your diet — you get a quick release, right? The AR is an intensified energetic space that lets you digest your shadow really fast. Say goodbye to constipation of the soul! (I’ve been there. I know how it feels. Not fun. And it can last forever!!!!) And say hello to the “Smoothe Move” of the soul! Yes, that is how effective the AR are. : )

When I discovered how quickly I could process things and liberate myself from burdens in the AR, I just started diggin’ and diggin’ — and yes, I found gold! Now, I’m very happy to be sharing this gold with my clients and they are giving me rave reviews simply because it blows them away. We hit core issues, release them and the results start appearing in their lives, immediately!

Truly thrilled to be sharing with you,

Stay tuned for the New Year’s draw! Maybe you’ll be the lucky one this time around. ❤
Talk soon,

Love Julie xxx

Eating the Shadow in Sex: Sexual Vampirism

To bring sex and relationships to higher frequencies, one needs to understand a very simple and yet profound principle. You need to own your shadow. Once you’ve owned it, you need to eat it, digest it and let it go! If you master this, get ready for mind-blowing experiences. But the difficult thing is actually seeing our shadow because it usually lurks in well-crafted blind spots. And you can count on our shadow showing up in sex — it always does, whether we see it or not. Sex is pure energy and that energy is our very own essence. So, whatever shadows are hiding in the very recesses of our being, sex will bear the imprint of it.


Throughout this 50 shades of connexion spectrum, every month I’ve been zooming into the various shadows that show up in sex. This month, the focus is on Sexual Vampirism. I really like talking about this one because I feel it is so subtle and yet happens so frequently, much more than we are aware of. To up your frequency in life, sex and relationships, you have to get a handle on this one or else you will walk around constantly in a depleted state. And who wants that? Not me!

This kind of sex is not mediated by money, nor straightforward physical abuse. Yet, something is not completely straight, nor honest. It’s sort of like discovering a leech on your body, and the leech can be of varying sizes. It is not rape on the physical level, but a form of “theft” on the energetic level which actually does feel like a violation once you see it. It involves sex where one individual in the coupling is not fully disclosing their intentions as a means of getting the much needed “hit.” The shadow: they are needy for life forces. They lack life forces due to blocked energy.

Baljit Rayat, a multi-dimensional healer, explains this phenomenon wonderfully on Devi Ward’s show “Sex is medicine.” In the case of sexual vampirism, the person is avoiding addressing emotional blockages. This ends up actually depleting that person. Instead of taking care of their blockages, they turn to sex to replenish their life forces, which essentially translates to taking someone else’s life forces, or more bluntly, stealing them. How do they do this?

Sexual activity activates powerful life forces and circulates them between two people. When one of the two is in a depleted state they cannot offer up any energy for the exchange. This means that they receive a nice flow of energy going through their body without actually giving any. They simply take. When they are filled up and satisfied, they find a way to close shop, withdraw and leave. When they need to fill up again, they return. If they can’t, they move on to someone else. On the other hand, the person that lost the energy will experience a sudden feeling of emptiness and loss, propelling them into a state of depletion. This, in turn, sharpens their feelings of neediness and insecurity. People that have been vampirized, explains Baljit, have various symptoms including feeling exhausted rather than vitalized, not feeling yourself, feeling anxious or hollow after sex. They might even feel suddenly that they are really emotionally needy or their fears are magnified. Insecurities skyrocket while self-esteem plummets. It’s the most dominant person in the coupling that leaves with the energy loot.Scan 24.jpeg

The problematic thing in this dynamic is that it can be done very smoothly without you really noticing it. The sexual vampire achieves this by concealing their intentions and makes the other person believe either overtly or indirectly that they are actually “loved and desired” when in fact what is being sought after in truth is their energy. The “sexual vampire” being energetically depleted is in a state of survival. If the person was perfectly transparent and said: “I don’t love you, I am just depleted. I actually just want to steal your life forces from you. I don’t have the courage to actually look at myself and figure out what is blocking my own life forces from flowing freely. So, if you don’t mind, I’m turning to you to take your vital energy forces.”

Chances are people wouldn’t go for it. But, the reality is people leak their energy all the time. Often times we leak our energy when we want to please or want to be loved… desperately. At all cost. The shadow: we are emotionally “needy”. We desperately want to be loved and settle for an illusion of love. And yes, the result is costly. Our life forces are being leaked to someone whose feeding off them. This means that we don’t have those life forces for ourselves, to move our lives forward positively. We have lost our vital forces by deferring our power to someone else which leads to disappointment and disempowerment. Not surprising! We have given away our life forces in exchange of a heightened sense of our insecurities, anxieties, fears, neediness and low self-esteem. Pretty rotten deal. We may even throw up when we finally clue in to what was actually going down. Our body knows, even if we don’t!   

Some of these “sexual vampires” may be doing this very consciously, others may be so depleted that they blindly act out of a dimmed state of energetic survival. Once they depleted their life forces again, they will come back knocking at your door, especially if it was an easy plunder. Especially if we are insecure! They figured out our weaknesses and know exactly what to say to hook us in. These types of relationships can drag on for very long periods of time due to lack of clarity, authentic communication, and integrity. The strategy is to keep the relationship in a gray zone which makes the maneuvering that much easier. This translates to long periods of energetic “leakage”. Just when we feel like the relationship is done, another hook comes along, another temptation reignites our hope that this could just maybe work out after all!

The interesting thing is that when we stop deferring our power to the un-transparent partner and seal up our energetic leakage, they may actually be angry with us! Well, we are pulling away their stash of yummy and soothing life forces! But don’t confuse this with “love”. They were relying on us for their survival, as an addict would on their drug. Eventually, they will just drift away. They really need their “fix” after all! They will seek out someone else willing to leak their energy to them. Since they act out of a state of depletion, getting life forces is quite the emergency.

Eva Pierrakos explains in her book Creating Union that when someone has really deep set energy blocks and vital forces are completely capped, it splits into areas of deviance. This is the energetic birthplace of deviant sexual behavior. Any deep wound that doesn’t get healed eventually festers. And these types of energy vampires may strike even more vulnerable groups, including children. As we all know, children have remarkable life forces— fresh and lively— that allow them to grow. When the energy current splits into deviance, survival is the modus operandi of the energy vampire. When they turn to children for their energy plunder — which makes them into “pedophiles” — the results can be extremely disturbing and harmful to the children involved.

The reality is that there are many depleted people roaming this earth for sex, not wanting to own up and take responsibility for themselves. But, there are just as many people leaking their energy hoping to be loved from such illusions. They too need to own their shadow. They too are needy and depleted. One attracts the other. It is not surprising that vampire movies make a killing in the box office! If you look more closely, you will notice that this dynamic actually explains a large percentage of sexual behavior happening out there.

The good news: understanding this is key to improving the quality of your sexual experiences and life. It also reveals another fundamental truth: our sex lives and our personal development are intimately connected. More to come on this theme!

To leave the realm of disempowered sex, one needs to enter the zone of clarity, lucidity, and self-respect. Before we shift across the spectrum, it is important to remember: unclarity and un-transparent relationships equate energy zapping, depletion and ultimately, disempowerment. With sexual vampirism, the connection we thought we were getting was just an illusion. But now that we know this, we can shatter it and search for the real deal! Ready to shift? The best piece of advice I can give you to improve your relationships and sex is to start owning your shadow. Then: eat it, digest it and let it go! Zat’ is zee rrrrecipe for zzzzuccess! Talk soon! 

Love Julie

FullSizeRender (1).jpgJulie is a multi-dimensional healer in the Akashic Records, a writer, and an artist. For more information, contact 

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