Ghosted: Dating someone that ceases all communication with you without any explanation and simply disappears.
The other day, I was consulting with someone in her AR. She was having trouble gathering all her energy together to work on her business. At the beginning of a session, I do what you call a “body scan” to check into her energy. For her heart, I got this interesting image of black birds. I wasn’t quite sure what it meant, but it really intrigued her. So, I investigated a little deeper and what came through was a question. What happened this summer? Anything come up when I say this to you? Then she says, yes, what comes up is that I was ghosted twice.
This was the key to enter into deeper layers of our session. As we dug deeper, it became clearer that she had really opened up to these two people over the course of the summer and felt really close to them. It had been a while since she hadn’t connected so deeply on a romantic level. Needless to say, she really grew attached to them. So when they disappeared on her, without any explanation, this deeply hurt her. She felt like crap, felt devalued and winded, so to speak. It became clear that her energy had been taken, and was kept in this depleted state because no explanation had been given to help her find peace. She kept on wondering: “What did I do?”
Then, we looked deeper. Why did this pattern seem to reoccur in her life? As we dug deeper into the layers, dynamics in her family came up around power, voice and abandonment. We took a moment to clear all these dynamics that no longer served her and looked into some deeper truths: She is this really powerful woman who needs someone who can fully embrace her power as opposed to deplete it. We also proceeded to re-claim all the energy that she had handed out to them. Reclaiming your energy allows you to put it in other places of value to you, like in your business!
This is what I find really amazing with the AR. You can go into them and pretty much ask whatever question you have about your current state and have some profound self-knowledge well up to support you.
If you have been ghosted, abandoned or feel any other discomfort taking a toll on your relationships and well-being, we can look into your records and help you get better aligned with your deep truths. This will empower you to create the nourishing reality you wish for yourself. Looking forward to talking! with love, Julie xxx